Blog About Whatever. Melissa V.

Today I'm feeling awful but ok at the same time. Something that bothers me right now and it will always bother me is how family always talks down at someone. I understand that there has to be problems at times but why hate others for a long time. Why do people have to talk so much about others?Why can't there be peace and happiness? Why can't everyone just get along? Some think that they are better then others and its not like that because no one is perfect. No one will understand that. They don't know that they are affecting others, for instance when there used to be family reunions it was fun and everything, now there is nothing. No one does or make any plans to get all the family together. Hoping that things would get better in the family but its not happening, and it never will but maybe in the future family things will get better.

Second thing, is that when a guy has feelings for girl number 1 and says I love you and all these things and he talks to girl number 2. He swares on everything that the girl number 1 is his other half, that she means the world to him, and that she is the only girl for him. It doesn't make sense to say all cute things to girl number 1 and then turn his back and talks to girl number 2. The guy does these things but he always say to girl number 1 he doesn't want to lose her. He says he is sore of talking to girl number 2 but not really but that stuff went down but he tells girl number 1 that he doesnt want to tell her because he doesnt want to hurt her.It's obvious if he doesn' tell her its going to bother her and its gonna make her think a lot of negative things about him. It just doesn't make sense if a guy has feelings for girl number 1 and says all these things. The guy should keep his word and control himself in any situtation. If a guy wants to be with a girl then be with her and commit to the relationship don't act stupid or irresponsible. He needs to tell girl number 2 or other girls that he can't have nothing because he cares and feels for girl number 1. Another thing is how hard is it to call her and ask how she's doing or just to say hi? It doesn't take years to do that. If you truly care for someone show that you care for that person instead of her thinking all types of things. Guys are jerks but theres always one guy out there thats willing to treat her right. He needs to open his eyes and realize what he has because other girls are not gonna treat him better. If he doesn't see that,then girl number 1 is not going to put up no more with it and let him go.